Is it ever okay to ask for the service charge to be removed at a restaurant? (2024)

Customers are noticing a trend towards London eateries upping their service charges, and not all of them are happy with it.

On Reddit forum r/london, a poster shared a pic of a receipt with a 15% service charge added on top that’s garnered 1,400 upvotes and more than 600 comments at the time of writing.

While service charges are discretionary, many of the people in the comments were expressing their displeasure, and sharing how they’ve started seeing similar restaurant costs rising.

One person wrote: ‘Ate out in London three times over the weekend, all had a 15% tip added to the bill without asking.

‘One restaurant made me pay via QR code, added a service charge, then asked if I wanted to add a tip before checking out…. no.’

‘I work in hospitality,’ wrote another, ‘but the service charge is a total scam and shouldn’t exist. It would make more sense to just include it in the prices, but that would probably scare some people off.’

And tipping culture is shocking diners beyond the UK capital. A TikTok has received more than five million views and thousands of outraged comments, after a woman in the US received a bill at Sugar Factury with 20% gratuity ($44 or £35) automatically added.

But don’t worry – if you’re not happy with the idea of paying an extra 15% or 20%, we checked with an expert on all things politeness and, yes, you can ask for it to be removed without sounding like a dreadful person.

Etiquette coach John-Paul Stuthridge tells us: ‘The hospitality industry is often too turbulent at the best of times. It rarely has healthy cash flow or reserves other industries can depend on, not least the high turnover of staff and cost of recruitment.

‘Throw in an extensive lockdown and a world cost of living crisis, restaurants have added service charges to help recoup their losses. Increasing the charge further helps them combat the crisis that is hard for some to say no to.

‘You can much more easily not go to a restaurant that’s upped its prices by 15%, but how many people will just accept a 15% service charge and politely say nothing? Many.’

When it comes to the purpose of these charges, Kate Nicholls, chief executive of UK Hospitality, says: ‘Service charge policies are set and determined by individual businesses, so it is up to them to determine the level of charge.

‘Service charges serve a variety of functions, but primarily reward staff and provide a boost to employees’ earnings, ensuring that venues can continue to provide the highest standard of service possible.’

But John-Paul, who works closely with language learning app Preply, does add that you’d be well within your rights to ask for the service charge to be removed, if that’s what you really want to do.

‘Whether you should ask to remove it may depend on how charitable you feel, or if the service genuinely deserved it,’ he adds. ‘It is your call.’

Kate agrees, saying: ‘The majority of hospitality venues will always be happy to discuss additional charges, and guests should always speak to a member of staff if they have any questions about their bill.’

If you truly don’t feel like the service is worthy of the charge on the bill, don’t get mean about it, just be, as John-Paul recommends, ‘direct and honest’.

‘No reason needs to be given,’ he goes on, ‘however, if you are asked, then give your polite feedback in an honest, but short to-the-point manner.

‘The higher the figure for service charge, the less likely customers will oblige, but having it removed altogether, so guests can tip the individual server the amount they want to give remains a legitimate and more proper compromise.’

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Please note that in the US, etiquette around tipping is hugely different than it is in the UK.

It’s customary, even expected that customers will tip at least 15%-20% to bring their pay up to the legal minimum wage.

As an example, the New York State Department of Labor says: ‘The minimum wage for food service workers in New York City is $15 [£12.20] per hour. Their employers can satisfy the minimum wage by combining a cash wage of at least $10 [£8.13] with a tip allowance of no more than $5 [£4.07].’

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If you make $10 an hour in New York, it’s likely that will come to be around $15,900 [£12,923] after tax, so it’s no exaggeration to say that servers need your tips to get by. Meanwhile, Glassdoor has it that the average salary for a waiter is £30,443 per year in London.

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Is it ever okay to ask for the service charge to be removed at a restaurant? (2024)

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Is it ever okay to ask for the service charge to be removed at a restaurant? ›

For voluntary service charges, ask for it to not be added to the bill, and, if you wish, tip in cash instead. Alternatively, for voluntary service charges, ask if they are passed on to staff, or kept by the restaurant. In the latter case, certainly ask for it to be removed, and, if you wish, tip in cash instead.

Is it rude to ask to remove a service charge? ›

But don't worry – if you're not happy with the idea of paying an extra 15% or 20%, we checked with an expert on all things politeness and, yes, you can ask for it to be removed without sounding like a dreadful person.

Can you say no to a service charge? ›

Service Charges

There are only limited circ*mstances where you can withhold payment of your service charges without breaching the terms of your lease. These are; Where the demand does not have attached to it (usually attached to the bill for service charges) the prescribed summary of rights and obligations.

Can I refuse to pay service charge in restaurant USA? ›

If the service is poor, it is the only excuse for failing to pay the mandatory service charge. Without a doubt, a decent wage should be accompanied by good service. It might be offered as a tip. However, unlike other service costs, tipping is optional.

Can you say no to a discretionary service charge? ›

Discretionary service charge

Discretionary means optional so if you're not happy with the service or think the tip is more than you'd like to pay, you don't have to pay it! The easiest way of avoiding a scene is to hand over your card or cash and inform the waiting staff how much you are paying.

Can you ask not to pay service charge? ›

Normally no as the payment of service charge is a firm and legal obligation duty laid out within the lease you would have signed when buying your property.

How to get out of service charge? ›

A leaseholder can challenge the "reasonableness" by applying to a tribunal, which has the power to make a ruling whether, or how much of, a service charge is reasonable or payable. In England, this is the first-tier tribunal (property chamber). In Wales it is the leasehold valuation tribunal.

What is the better way to say service charge? ›

Service charges are also called service fees. They go by a number of different names depending on the industry, including booking fees (hotels), security fees (travel), maintenance fees (banking), and customer service fees.

Do I have to tip if the service is bad? ›

Etiquette expert and owner of the Protocol School of Texas Diane Gottsman, who spoke with The Post, says bad service is actually a "fair reason to skip a tip." "Only after you speak to the manager and make sure others aren't going to suffer if you walk out without leaving any type of gratuity," she explained.

Can someone charge you for a service you didn't ask for? ›

You can contact the seller directly to try to fix the issue, or you can “dispute the charge” with the company that issued your credit card. For example, you can dispute a charge that you did not authorize, that is for the wrong amount, or that is for something that the seller didn't provide as agreed upon.

Can service charge be removed in the Philippines? ›

HOTELS and restaurants violate Republic Act 11360, the Service Charge Law, if they remove the levy from their guests' bills.

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